Says the original author: “I would be lying if I said it didn’t get to me.
I thought it would be some fun thing, something where I would do it and worse case scenario say “lol I was a guy I trolled you lulz”, etc.
Gone are the days when “aging gracefully” was the only appropriate option for people our age.
Baby boomers today are redefining life after 60 and setting an example for future generations.
Seemingly nice dudes in quite esteemed careers asking to hook up in 24 hours and sending them naked pics of myself despite multiple times telling them that I didn’t want to.” As a male coach for smart, strong, successful women, I apologize on behalf of all men. But they really don’t get what it’s like to walk a mile in your shoes.
I wrote about this in Finding the One Online extensively – what it’s like to be a woman dating online and how men need to up their games to connect.
One of my personal missions is to convince women my age that they do not need to be invisible.
This could be as simple as writing down a list of the characteristics that you are looking for in a partner.
Or, you could even come up with a name for your mystery man or woman and keep them in your mind when you write your profile.
I’m not trying to say what he experienced isn’t true, but bots and scammers are plentiful on dating sites, to the extent that any reasonably intelligent person can smell them as fakes.
If you are at the beginning of your senior dating journey, you probably have several questions. I’d like to tackle the first of these questions – how to write an amazing senior dating profile that get’s you the attention that you deserve.