Don't miss your chance to meet lots of great singles at our popular speeddating events in New Jersey and Long Island!Our events were featured on 20/20 and the Barbara Walters special "Living to be 150" and we are recognized for hosting the largest and best speeddating events in the tri-state area.
We usually have between 50 & 100 attendees at each event, so there is lots of opportunity to meet, mingle and match with other great singles, just like you!But in the past only aristocratic, rich, famous or powerful women were able to do so and survive the condemnation from society," says Valerie Gibson, author of Cougar, A Guide For Older Women Dating Younger Men ( "With the advent of women obtaining economic independence, things have finally started to change." "I think it's becoming more acceptable as lifestyles change," adds Sydney-based Love Coach Carolin Dahlman ("Nowadays we all tend to live similar lives, unlike when our parents were young and there were clear gaps between the generations."He offers security - and she boosts him up, improving his mood and blood pressure, helping him to live longer." While some women may disagree with the anti-feminist tendencies of such a match, others might argue that it defines feminism."Women are choosing the men they want to marry - they aren't being selected," says Helen Fisher, an anthropologist and author of "Why We Love." "When choosing an older man, she is getting someone who is settled, has a network and money and can take care of her.