A big part of STD Internet groups is social outings. "When we go on outings, we don't put a sign up in the hallway saying, 'Meeting of the Charlotte herpes club,'" Pam said, "Once we went to dinner and there were 30 of us and the hostess asked, 'What's the special occasion?One site, H2Ofriends.com, lists events for people with herpes in some 40 cities, from San Francisco, California, to Cedar Rapids, Iowa. ' My friend said, 'We're the Charlotte pottery club!'"CNN Medical News senior producer Jennifer Pifer contributed to this report. Are you afraid to tell a potential partner that you are infected?"look into her eyes and tell her, if she truly loves you, she won't care you have herpes! How, after a third date, will a girl be enough in love with you to not care about the risk of herpes?! I've tried putting my heart and soul into this girl so I can make a strong connection as soon as I can.But girls find it desperate and needy and basically you can't win.
And the growing number of people in similar situations has created a new industry: Internet dating sites just for people with STDs.
We have a connection but after a few dates its obvious to the both of us that sex will come on the 4th date. Girls my age that start dating guys, are almost always having sex within the first week.
My question is: After reading up about having "the talk", it seems everyone says the same thing. They continue to say that you need to have the talk earlier than later, suggesting thirdish date. If its stretched out any further they detach and give the cold shoulder.
And they don't have to worry about spreading herpes, since the other members already have it.
Pam says at first, people are very nervous about joining, because it may be the first time they identify themselves as having herpes."People show up for their first support group meeting and sometimes they turn right around at the door because they don't have the courage to come in," said Pam.